Me before you!

You can't change anyone for who they are!

Then what can you possibly do for them? 

You can love them! 

These are mere words assembled to form a very deep meaning. Often falling in love implies that a person wants to change tiny things about you according to their comfort and compatibility. Well, I don't feel it's wrong. Because to love someone, you must love yourself. If that tiny change will keep you sane and regenerate the spark then you are allowed to be selfish. You give to others what is inside you. But sometimes you need, to understand their perspective of living a life and if it does not match yours. You better know what to do next.

Never try in love. Only put effort to the extent that you feel you aren't trying. Put ME BEFORE YOU. Love yourself to give love to your partner. Sometimes you might end up alone. But you cannot assure that you will be lonely. Can you imagine love when two people's bodies aren't involved, only their minds and conversations? Well, those kinds of relationships bring an ocean of emotions. Mutual love with no sex but gentle skin of lips touching each other. And pure love is rolling out through your eyes. Physical relationships mean a lot as they are a form of conversation through the body. But without conversations and desire to know each other is a mere body's need. 

Me before you!

You are special only if you believe it. You are loved only if you feel love inside you. There are people left who want to love and care for you. There is no need to wait for it. Just be who you are and love yourself. You will be the one that you are searching for. Keep yourself before anyone!