I am bored of you

I am bored of you
Let's talk about the relationship between lovers. But first let us know about the meaning of the term relationship. 
Relationship according to google is defined as – a friendly or loving connection between people.
Yes it is correct because a connection can be between friends, family, and between two people say, a lover or partners. 
And every connection has different emotions and different meanings of their relationship. 
We often think that love is beautiful it's magical it will always give me butterflies I will always be enchanted by my partner because I love them. 
We always feel that we are never going to feel bored or anxious with that person. 
And here we do a mistake. 
It's not our fault we are often told and shown that in love u never get bored of that person but it's not true. 
The desire for constant newness in life destroys the feeling of love. 
And when I say the desire for constant newness I mean the desire of having those butterflies and goosebumps that we had at the beginning of our relationship should remain till eternity or the forever that we often write. 
Instead, we should tell each other that we are going to be bored of each other in the future. That I am going to annoy you, that I will make you angry at things, that we are going to fight. 
But in the end, we love each other we respect each other and we will be together no matter what. 
Tell your partner that I am scared that what happens when we will be bored of each other. But at least I want to try and make this work with you.

It's simple to love. Also relationship is very easy if you don't overthink it and just be in it and enjoy it. 
Don't be afraid of loving ❤️

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  1. People often confuse love with bollywood movies where the partners are always happy and smiling singing songs for eachother and die together in the end but the reality is very much different love teaches us how to be happy in someone else's happiness and how to make them secure about no matter what happens you will be there for them and vice versa its about trusting eachother its so pure that one can feel that the other one is in love or not by spending few hours or having a normal conversation over phone and loving someone does not always bring happiness

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    1. You happen to know love. This comment made me happy ❤

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